Monday 17 March 2014

3 Secrets Of The Wealthy That You Can Use

By Andrew Block


Are you secretly struggling against yourself and your goal of becoming wealthy? Sometimes our moral compass and our thoughts about money and wealth can stand in our way of creating real wealth. How can you silence these thoughts and feelings so you can find the true wealth that you desire?

You might not think that you have any conflicting thoughts but there's a pretty good chance that they exist whether you believe it or not. Most of us have been taught that a desire to become rich is bad. We might have feelings about wealth that prevent us from making the decisions and taking action to bring money into our life. Changing how you think and feel about wealth is important to your success.

The first area where you might be having some trouble has to do with your own worth. Do you secretly feel that you'll never be rich? Do you think that it's other people that become wealthy and it simply isn't in the cards for you? You dream of having enough money to do the things that you want in life but you don't believe in your heart that it will ever happen for you. Maybe you feel that you're cursed financially or that the right opportunity will never happen for you.

Changing how you feel about yourself and your ability to generate great wealth is the first step in your success. Great people from all walks of life and every degree of intelligence become wealthy. It's not just extremely intelligent people or lucky people or even those that come from wealthy families that become rich in this world. It is true that everyone that becomes wealthy believed in their ability to become rich. On the other hand, those that are poor remain poor because they believe that this is their lot in life. Believe that you deserve to be wealthy in your heart and you stand a much better chance of achieving that goal.

Next, many of us believe the stereotypes and labels that our society puts upon the wealthy. In your own life, there may have been a defining moment that made you believe that rich people are bad or that everybody hates the rich. You might worry that other people will hate you or that along with your wealth you might earn one of these labels. You fear being rich for personal reasons or because you care very much about what people say about you.

While it is true that many people become jealous of wealthy people, there is a lot of good that might be done with your wealth. You could help your friends and family to realize their dreams. You could provide for yourself in your later years so you don't become a burden to your family or society. You don't have to change if you were to become wealthy. Maybe you'll be the kind of rich person that remembers the difficult times and donates a portion of your wealth to a charity that is near and dear to your heart.

Finally, there is probably a small part of you that feels guilty for wanting more money. Maybe you feel that you should be grateful for what you have and that your desire for wealth is simply greed. Most of us have this feeling to some degree. We have been taught that we should want other things in life such as closer relationships with the ones we love or a closer relationship with God but if we desire more money then we are greedy. You might even feel bad for dreaming about what it would be like to be rich and not have to worry about money.

To overcome this fear and the obstacle that it can become in your life, try not to think of money as your goal. Think of money or the dollar amount in your bank account as a number that is a measure of success. It's simply a number. Call it something else such as credits or match sticks if this makes you feel better. Think of the money in your bank account as a measure of how hard you worked or how much the world values your help. The more you help the world, the more money you should see in your bank account.

Getting past all the stigmas and bad thoughts that we all have about money and wealth is your first step in the right direction towards becoming wealthy. These thoughts inside our head can be changed. These barriers that cause you to give up on yourself and your dreams can be overcome. Focus on having more positive thoughts about wealth and you will find that financial success will come to you more easily. You will also find that you're more comfortable with the idea of becoming wealthy and you'll become a happier human being in the long run.




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